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The Best Relationship

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“The best

relationship

is one in which

your love

for each other

exceeds your need

for each other.”

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~ Dalai Lama

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The two extremes:

a totally I must be in control freak,

or the completely dependent basket case.

To have a good relationship

you must check your motives and be sure that

both parties are giving 100%

and neither of them are keeping score.

Know that God designed men and women

to make a compatible pair to keep this world

moving forward.

Today, be compatible.

Love is knowing the difference between

loving each other and needing each other.

Love is helping someone love themselves.

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To Be Yourself

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“A friend

is someone

who gives you

total freedom

to be yourself.”

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~ Jim Morrison

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The control freak and the co-dependent

are mostly worried about their own insecurities,

a friend is concerned about your well being.

The sick manipulate and pressure others to change,

so as to avoid having to change themselves.

If the supposed friend is too demanding or too needy

move on, have faith, God will provide a friend to all

who are willing to give everyone the freedom they need.

Friendship is being given the freedom to be yourself.

Friendship is a priceless gem

that is to be valued and protected.

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